Wednesday, April 9, 2008

4.9.08 - 2#!!!

Today Aybra:

Passed the 2# mark. She is now 935g.
Came out from under the bili lights.
Got to wear clothes
Tolerated her feeds well


Today I:
Got to see her eyes (somewhat)
Got to give her a sponge bath
Got to lift her up so they could change her bed.. (Its the next best thing to holding her.)

Aybra wearing clothes:

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Aybra with one eye partly opened:

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Creepy Zaky hands....

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Fluffy mail

Thanks to the help of some lovely ladies from the CD board at Preg.org I won this lotto on diaper swappers. The mama who was hosting it was awesome and really gave a lot. There were outfits, hats, booties, socks, diapers, covers, and a few wool pieces. I wanted to thank everybody who helped win the lotto and the lovely mama who hosted it. Aybra will really enjoy these when she is bigger.


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And another lovely mama from the CD board at Preg.org sent Aybra these 2 preemie prefolds and a super cute cover. I posted a picture of Aybra beside a preemie prefold on the Pictures from 4.8.08 post.

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Pictures from 4.8.08

These are the pictures that were taken yesterday

Kaia touching Aybra (trying to calm her down)

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And again with some flash action

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Streeeeetching

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Papa and Aybra

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Papa taking Aybras temp

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Mawmaw and Kaia and Nurse (Jamie) and Aybra

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Aybra next to a preemie prefold

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Tuesday, April 8, 2008

4.8.08

The feeding battle has begun. Aybra has started her feeds and stopped her feeds the past 3 days. Today was the first day that she actually tolerated some of it so instead of one feed today she got two. Here is to hoping that her next feed goes well and she tolerates it.

She is still under the bili lights but her levels are low (3.9) so she should be getting out from under them soon.

She is almost back up to her birth weight. She is 880g.

Now for the pictures (Ill load the ones from today later)

This was taken on the 6th

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And this one on the 7th

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And one of the boys eating lunch on the 7th.

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Sunday, April 6, 2008

Wow! You have a lot of milk

I hear this alot and just thought I would tell everybody some of my "secrets" to a great milk supply.

Drink LOTS of water and fluids

Rest as much as you can. I know this is hard but it really is important.

Pump as often as you can. At *least* 8 times a day, but more is better.

If you feel a letdown between your normal pumping times go and pump! Even if you have to hand express DO IT!! (BTW... Learning HOW to hand express can be very valuable. If you are ever stuck somewhere without your pump it could come in very handy, no pun intended)

Pump near your baby or look at a picture of your baby while pumping.

Record your babies cries or sounds and listen to that while pumping.

Relax while you are pumping. Listen to soft music, read a book or look at a magazine. Do not stare at your breasts waiting for the milk to come out.

Use the correct size breast shield. Your nipple should not rub against the side of the shield. If it does then you need a bigger size. Not only will the bigger size help your supply it will make your nipples less sore. The standard 24mm is usually too small for most women. A little pain is normal but if you are continuously in pain then something is wrong. You should speak with a LC if you are in pain. They can also help you chose the breastshield that is the best fit for your breasts.

Use a hospital grade pump. If you can not use one try to get one that has a letdown feature.. If you cant do that then start pumping with the pump on the lowest suction and fastest speed.. Slowly increase the suction until you are comfortable

Pump both of your breasts at the same time.

Pump for at least 15 minutes. If your are still getting milk pump for 2 minutes after the last drop. You want to make sure you fully empty your breasts.

Compression compression compression!!! Massage your breasts before and during pumping.

Keep your breasts warm. Cold air or having your breasts cold can restrict the milk flow.

Pump at least once during the night. Do not ever go more than 5 hours without pumping.

Do not ever go more than 5 hours without pumping.

Do not ever go more than 5 hours without pumping... Very important... The "supply" works on a supply and demand basis.. if you are not demanding then your breasts will not supply.

Maintain a healthy diet; take supplements where needed. Get your hemoglobin checked. Breastmilk is made by taking vitamins and nutrients from your blood. If you are lacking these then your milk will be lacking these and anemia could result in poor supply.


These are just some ideas. There are always things like galactogues that can help enhance your milk supply but your best bet is to use the "supply and demand" route. Galactogues can help but sometimes they are mis-used or over-used. You might become dependant on them so try to steer away from them, but by all means use them if you need to help augment your supply. Here is a list of herbal galactogues as well as some more tips for a good milk supply.

4.6.08

Are we past the honeymoon yet? It just does not seem real that she is doing so well. This morning she was started on some breastmilk feeds. So far so good but this is one of the things I had worries about. Im just keeping my fingers crossed that she does well with it. And she is being weaned from the oxygen.. So far so good with that too.

She was weighed last night. She was 855g! Thats about 1# 14oz. So she has lost an ounce but at least it was only an ounce.

Anyway she is doing great. And I think I better get my butt in gear and start really getting ready for her to come her. I think her weight is going to be the only thing that holds her back. She has to be 4.5# before she comes home. Im thinking she will be home sometime in June.. Between the beginning and middle.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

4.5.08 HUGE NEWS!!!!!!!!!!

Guess what happened today?? Look at the following picture and you can see!!!

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My baby girl is OFF of the vent!!!! She got taken off at 11 this morning... I called and called and called all day to see how she was doing off of it. I thought for sure she would only last a few minutes.. but its midnight now and she is still off! She is doing great. She is on 1.5 lpm nasal cannula and she is just cruising along. She has had a few desats episodes but I imagine its a little hard for her being so little but Im amazed at how well she is doing. I did not expect them to even try for another week or two.

Here is another picture of her face without the vent.

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And.... Being off of the vent means she gets to move positions... (They took her umbillical lines out). This is her spina bifida free back! I finally got to see for myself. I feel so relieved seeing this. Its like closure or something. I just feel like I can breathe.

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She had a lot of things happen today. She is being weighed again tonight. When I have that number I will update. Im really anxious to see how much she weighs now. She looks like she has lost some weight and Im sure she did from the typical stuff babies normally lose but she just looks skinny. Im just praying if she did it isnt a lot of weight. Im really hoping for a gain though.

Tomorrow I hope more happy news will come. I *might* get to hold her depending on how well she does. She does not like stimulation.. Noises or touches so Im kind of worried how it will go. I dont want to irritate her but Im dying to hold her. Also, if her bili levels are looking good she might get to come out from under the lights.. I swear her NICU journey is going by so fast. At this rate she will be home in no time. I never expected her to do this well so its still kind of hard to believe. I just keep waiting for something to go wrong.


Kaia finally got to meet his sister today (Bay-bay Abba).. He had a few things to say..
1. "Tell me about her boobs"
2. "Can she walk?"
3. "When she gets big she will get big boobs"
4. "I want to hold her"

He got to kiss the glass

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And he touched her a few times. He is VERY excited about his baby sister.

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Alo got to see her again too. I just love how this picture turned out.

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He loves to point at her and smile

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